Friday, March 16, 2007

Always to be happy

Thank God it’s Friday….. This morning I bumped into a friend of mine who used to be a reporter and journalist with Bernama, and is currently an educationalist with one of the International University. I was asking him whether he has read the article by Rehman and wanted to know his opinion about it. He told me that the article is a lousy spin from a Not So Talented Person. Well since my blog sisters Marina Mahatir, Noraina Samad, Elviza and many more Malaysian bloggers in the blogosphere had given their piece of mind. All I can say is Rehman, be a true Malaysian and go with the progress of the modern technology.

The things I’ve planned for the weekend are all ruined. My significant other is not around. She flew to KL just now for the education fair. Well, duty calls so I must be happy always. I found something at and would like to share it with Clemfour readers and friends. You may have seen these before, but a reminder is always good now and then. No harm in that.


No one can go back and make a brand new start. Anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending. God didn't promise days without pain, laughter without sorrow, sun without rain, but He did promise strength for the day, comfort for the tears, and light for the day.

Disappointments are like road bumps, they slow you down a bit but you enjoy the smooth road afterwards. Don't stay on the bumps too long. Move on! When you feel down because you didn't get what you want, just sit tight and be happy, because GOD is thinking something better to give you.

When something happens to you, good or bad, consider what it means. There's a purpose to life's events, to teach you how to laugh more or not to cry too hard. You can't make someone you love, all you can do is be someone who can be loved, and the rest is up to the person to realize your worth.

The measure of love is when you love without measure. In life there are very rare chances that you'll meet the person you love and loves you in return. So once you have it don't ever let go, the chance might never come your way again.

Its better to lose your pride to the one you love, than to lose the one you love because of pride. We spend too much time looking for the right person to love or finding fault with those we already love, when instead we should be perfecting the love we give.

When you truly care for someone, you don't look for faults, you don't look for answers, and you don't look for mistakes. Instead, you fight the mistakes, you accept the faults and you overlook the excuses. Never abandon an old friend. You will never find one who can take his place. Friendship is like wine; it gets better as it grows older.

Remember the five simple rules to being happy:

Free your heart of hatred.

Free your mind from worries.

Live simply.

Give more.

Expect less.